“And the end of all our exploring
will be to arrive where we started
And know the place for the first time.” – T. S. Eliot
Four months ago I set out to see a country I knew nothing about. With college behind me and an uncertain future ahead, I was looking for some time to breathe; to experiment; to take a moment to step outside the path to “success” to see what else might be out there. I wanted to test my mettle as a traveler, and see what it would be like to actually live in a foreign country instead of going through another whirlwind of photo-ops and tourist must-see’s. I wanted to see for myself if a politically unstable or less-developed country is anywhere near as inhospitable as they’re portrayed in the media. I showed up in Venezuela not knowing a soul, wide-eyed and anxious about whether the next four months would be a life-changing experience or a living nightmare. In actuality, it turns out that I had nothing to fear at all.
On my last night in Caracas, as I was eating dinner in the kitchen of a friend’s family, the mother asked me a simple question: What did I learn in Venezuela? I had trouble coming up with an answer at the time, but it’s one worth thinking about. I learned (or rather reaffirmed) that no matter where you go, people are basically the same. Beliefs, customs and values differ, but in every country you will find people kind and rude, curious and indifferent, hospitable and dangerous; and more often than not, people’s attitude toward you tend to mirror your own. I learned that even in the most dangerous city in the world, with common sense, proper guidance and a little luck, you can be perfectly safe and comfortable. I learned first-hand that I can be just fine spending months in a house that lacks AC or internet or at times even running water, subsisting on only one decent meal each day – and in fact, normal people make do with even less all the time. I learned that learning a language is an exercise in patience and humility, and that I’m currently lacking in both. Lastly, on a more personal note, I learned that it’s possible to find more in common with a person who grew up in an entirely different world from you than ones you actually grew up with at home.
The most profound change I sense in myself is my attitude toward the future: to be more specific, toward uncertainty. It’s something I started to realize while traveling on semester at sea, but I’ve become more conscious of it recently. Last week, a friend going on the same voyage this summer asked me for advice about how he should plan his activities in each country. My response was to do as little planning as possible: that the most vivid and memorable experiences always come from the spontaneous, unplanned moments that catch us by surprise. Experience has taught me that it’s true in traveling, and (as with most lessons from the road) it’s also true in a larger context. The most profound experiences that force us to challenge ourselves and grow rarely come from moments when everything is planned in advance or when we can see exactly what is coming our way. It’s when we’re pushed beyond our comfort zones and forced to be creative that life gets really interesting. From bribing my way out of encounters with authorities, to getting locked out of my apartment without a phone or money, or having to improvise an hour-long group lesson on the spot, I’ve come to the conclusion that no matter how unpredictable a situation may be, I can deal with it. That belief has spilled over into other parts of my life, and as a result I’ve become much less anxious about the road ahead. I have no real job prospects and only a little money saved to support me in the months ahead, but I’m not nervous in the way that I used to be – in fact, I now think that a traditional job at this point might do me more harm than good, though that’s another topic in itself.
On my way back to the U.S., I’m curious to see how my perceptions of home will have changed as I readjust to the American lifestyle. Spending time in Latin America has certainly shifted my sense of the dichotomy between luxury and necessity; how what we normally consider as basic living could be so far above the reach of so many. I don’t know that I’ll be able to go back to my old habits and ways of thinking, and I hope won’t. My priorities in life have certainly realigned, and with them my plans for the future.
It’s difficult to aptly sum up my time in Venezuela, but I can say that it was an incredible mixture of fun and excitement with a heavy dose of a reality that most of us in the U.S. aren’t aware of. It was an amazing experience to be sure, and I’m deeply grateful to everyone in Caracas who made it possible. For now, I’m preparing to see my own country in a new light again, and excited to see what life brings next.
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